To have a healthy relationship you must have what I call “Shared Vulnerability”. How can you demand trust if you don’t give it? Don’t sit in your barn, never willing to risk pain, and then wonder why you are all alone.
Do you sabotage your intimacy? Do you have one foot out the door in your relationship? Are you someone who’s mother or father told you never to “trust” anyone with your finances or your heart? Are you hedging your bets when it comes to letting go and being totally IN to your primary relationship?